Don't Be A Victim
A lot of times when things do not go our way you can treat yourself like a victim. DONT BE A VICTIM. You are far from a victim, when we feel victimized we feel weak and we send a signal of energy to the universe that we are not capable. This is allowing outside fear to affect us as we don't feel we ourselves have the power within us. You are letting go of your own destiny and being kicked around by other energy and thoughts. I mean what if your sales pitch didn't go the way you wanted it too or your relationship fell apart you can't get down on yourself for one second. I have been there in that same position and feeling bad for myself and it got me nowere and worse yet it attracts even more negativity towards you. It just creates this snowball effect were more negativity and controlling energy heads your way and beats you down. A perfect example for me would be how people made me feel in relationships, completely unvalued and walked on. I was cheated on, lied to and most of all flat our made to feel like I could never live up to someone else's standard. It was a repetitive cycle that continued from worse relationship to worse relationship and each got worse. Until I started just getting up and knowing that life is positive and I have all the power within me to change this, I AM WORTH MORE. So stand up right now if you feel bad for yourself and say "I AM WORTH MORE". Anything you think hasn't worked out in your past it is all for a reason and it is the universe and positive energy guiding you along the path that best fits you, don't fight it allow it to be.
So you can be GREAT!