Your Lifestyle Right Now Is the Best
Some of you might say "well I'm not exactly living the lifestyle I want, I don't have the car, the plane or the vacations" so how can my lifestyle right now be the best? It is one of those questions that is similar to what came first the chicken or the egg. Today we have all this information streaming in our face everyday and we can get wrapped up in it. I mean come one, we see all these people on vacations or living lavish lives like Kim Kardashian, Instagram influencers and even friends. So how do we not tell ourselves in this day in age that to be happy we need the vacations and lavish lifestyle first to be happy. I'm here to tell you that your lifestyle what you are living at this present moment is amazing and the best. Your current state of being is the best because it is the only state of being, not your past or future.
I can tell you first hand that I used to be like this, that I was always looking to get that car or vacation. That's all I thought about and part of that was in this new age of technology and social media its in our face all the time. It translated over to my life because no matter how good I would have it, it just wasn't good enough. This thinking, that the vacations and lifestyle came first only allows your ego to take over. My ego was never satisfied and when I got something I would just be looking to the future of what was next, and not in a healthy way. I showed no lack of appreciation for my present moment. I was weak and didn't feel empowered because my own ego broke me down and never made me feel good enough to the outside world.
As a result of this my relationships suffered, my business suffered and my life suffered. I would just be resentful of people and sometimes for no reason. I can remember looking at people around me, even people I care about who had the same lifestyle as me and I would be wondering if they thought less of me. I would feel I would have to prove something as though they were better than me. It just wasn't healthy and it attracted the wrong kind of people that would use my weak state of mind for themselves and I would push away those who cared about me. The only way I was able to get out of this constant spiral was to live in the now. I realized my present state was what it was and it all is just as it should be. It allowed my mind to let go of trying to catch that picture perfect lifestyle that my surroundings had me looking at. I stopped saying to myself the grass is greener on the other side and started to water my own grass.
I can tell you why all those images you see out there of people living a "perfect life" is a house of cards. Nothing is as it appears and no ones life is perfect, that person could be thinking how I used to think. That nothing is ever good enough and everyone is better than them. They could be having trouble themselves in life and how they are living. The pictures around us are only snapshots of what people really are they aren't defining yet we look at them with such weight to them like they are explaining a life story.
Our present moment is our perfect lifestyle because it is happening right now. In this present moment we can live and breathe the change we want and we can live it. The past and the future are only memories and shadows of what we have been and what we want. Our present is where we make this actually happen. Right now you get to make that change in your life and crush it. You can absorb every second and live your life, after all we only have so much time, so why waste it living in shadows of what could be. your lifestyle right now is tangible and powerful so be in it and live it and if you want change live that too.
Your lifestyle right now even if you are grinding it out is the best. When you are out achieving what you want it is the best time of your life believe me. You are in your zone achieving your life right now and if your not put the time in to do it yourself. You will change your life by living in the present moment and focusing on you, don't worry about that future relationship, that future car that future house. Success will come when you are in the present because the present is the only place you can listen to yourself and be positive.
Your lifestyle right now is amazing, OWN IT!