Being Kind Is Cool
Everyone today thinks being an entrepreneur is cool, well I think being kind is cool. The best part is the two go hand in hand. Being kind is part of being an entrepreneur if you aren't kind to people that energy will never come back to you. Everything in life is basically built in a circle where you give unconditionally you receive unconditionally. So being kind is honestly the coolest thing you could ever possibly do with your life. Being kind will get you where you want to go and it isn't nice guys finish last its nice guy in a Lamborghini.
The reason why being nice is so dam cool is because when you are kind you are sending out that great energy within you to all your surroundings. It is like a ripple effect and that ripple comes back around to you in time. The reason why sometimes we lose this sense of being kind especially as entrepreneurs is because well sometimes we feel it doesn't come back at all. Sometimes you are nice and straight up someone just f#cks you over. How many of you entrepreneurs out there have that one happen? I'm sure a lot it is just the nature of being kind and like that ripple you don't want that kindness to just go out in one direction but all directions.
Don't be kind because you think you are getting something out of the situation because you may not get anything. As you go about your day you allow yourself to be kind to those that cross your path. This doesn't mean you wont get angry, as an entrepreneur people will drive you nuts. You simply handle them with kindness and respect and sign up at your local boxing gym or gun range to air out your frustration its actually quite healthy believe me. This way you can be kind to your surroundings while getting rid of any pain or hurt someone else inflicted on you.
What these irritations and screw overs cause in many entrepreneurs is a need to be directional kindness. That kindness is no longer cool but must be cherished and used when something can be obtained, like it is a tool. This is the wrong way to look at kindness and a lot of the time that directional kindness will cause you to be further blocked off because if your kind and it isn't brought back immediately you shut yourself off further. Kindness isn't a tool and it isn't something that you use sparingly, sorry you have got to use that all the time. Your positivity and determination is what has that sh*t come back to you. If you don't then as an entrepreneur your world will be a constant struggle and hardship because that is all you put out there.
You as the entrepreneur want to be able to allow yourself to be open to kindness and therefore you must give it. This is a very simple scenario but people always get it wrong especially in business. They look at kindness like it the chicken or the f#cking egg scenario. Its not that complicated you give kindness it comes back too you. You don't receive it then decide if you want to hand it out.
Be kind its the cool thing to do!