Attract The Right Positive Partner In Life
As you think positively you want to use that to attract the right partner in your life. Being in a positive relationship is a major strength and being in a bad one can hurt you for a long time better yet it can be really shit. You know how some people say "I find a relationship when I am not looking for one". There is truth to that because human beings aren't objects though we can tend to treat them like they are at times. You don't have to be a Wolf Of Wall Street type to objectify a relationship. People tend to not want to let go of an idea of what our future partner should be or you suffocate the partner that you have for them to fit a mold of what you think they should be. This is why that old saying holds true when you let go and send your thoughts out without being worried or fearful and clinging onto them they come back to you.
The point is whether you are looking for a partner or have one you want to have an idea and know what you want in a partner and a relationship so you can send that out and have it come back to you. When you cling to much to a thought you are showing you are fearful. When you are fearful you don't attract the right energy you attract more negative and fearful energy. This can lead to a repetitive cycle of break ups and cheating. Allow your mind to be open to the world and be able to connect with those around you. Like that old saying your aren't looking for one but your mind subconsciously knows what you want so it is sending it our there and you are more open minded about it.
Our positive thoughts can turn into obsessions especially when it comes to relationships. You can feel that your dream person has to be a certain way, I mean after all you do want to spend your entire life with them so they should fit an idea in your head somewhat. You want to have specific non defining traits though that you are looking for like kind, polite, or if you like someone that carry's the conversation or is funny too you. These are just variables that fit with your sort of personality and are vague. When you let them sit in your subconscious and let them out and allow your self to be in the moment to actually interact with another energy you can be open to finding the right person. Honestly we don't know who the right person is for us, no one really does until it happens.
Being too specific and clinging to a thought makes you narrow mind and shuts you off to the world around you. You want the right partner to come to you and you need to be open to that. That's why you want those vague traits in your subconscious not to be actively looking for a 6'5", long haired, strong jawed, strapping, lawyer making six figures or for men a blond, 5'9", with long legs, coke bottle figure, banker making six figure. Those types of specifics don't work and are generally crazy. You need to be open to the world around you and the actual energy coming across you. You do not want to miss your soul mate because of a pre conceived notion.
Stay positive your someone is out there!
More on relationships to come, stay tuned!