Positivity Leads To Success
There is no way you are getting anywhere by being negative, sulking or being downright victimized on a regular basis. Shit happens to everyone in this life and what will differentiate you is how you are able to handle it and move yourself forward that will give you the life you want and deserve. We all have those days whether as entrepreneurs, business professionals, parents or college students where we just feel down right shitty. You may feel that the world is against you and that there is no hope. Well the world isn't against you the only person against you is yourself because the rest just don't matter.
The most common excuse we give ourselves is being the victim. "I didn't get that job because someone else has a connection" or "I didn't pass that test because I'm not good at this subject" or even better "my business is suffering because I don't have enough money and connections". Victimizing yourself is the worst it is giving into something that isn't real. You are lying to yourself thinking that because something didn't happen it is because of someone else. It is either because of you or because it just wasn't meant to be that's it and move on. There is no reason to degrade yourself for something that didn't happen, it will only lead you further in the right direction if you let it.
The reason we get caught up in being denied or someone saying no to us is because of our ego's. We have a certain image of ourselves that we wish to portray to the outside world. That image is always something we deem as having to be perfect and likeable the moment that doesn't happen it is damaged causing anger, frustration and resentment. When you let go of your ego and allow yourself to just be you wont have these feelings anymore you will accept that what is right for you comes to you and every no leads you down the path you are supposed to be on.
This is where positivity comes into play and always being positive. Everyone always talks about being positive but how do you actually turn it into success without holding it all in and blowing up? When you allow things to just be you will begin to work smarter and when something doesn't go your way your positivity will attract what is right for you, what works and what is meant to be. You will let go of what hasn't worked because you will know that it is not the truth inside of you. By being positive you will be able to see where you are actually meant to go instead of focusing on what you don't have. Growing your life exponentially. Don't get hung up on the short vision that since someone said no you cant have a life anymore. Its the opposite it actually opens you up to something far better when you are in a positive head space. When you are victimized you continue being victimized because that is what you are sending out to the world around you, that you are a victim.
Be positive and know that every decision you make is the right decision. Put the work in that will make you confident in every decision and positive that no matter what happens you are on the right path. Be positive and stay open to the universe around you.